Sorry but now I have found this site I just want to mention some things that I find help.
the book The Cancer Survivor's Companion is definitely worth reading. Written by Dr. Frances Goodhart and Lucy Aitkins. I am in the middle of reading it now and have made notes of various comments from it. Love the first two pages when she talks about being a boat!!!! Treat yourself and read it as have only just found this book.
I also find the Daily Mail on a Tuesday has a medical section and often there are good comments in that.
Good luck everyone.